The truth about softening is this:
Ultimately, softening brings a deeper intimacy with life itself. It calls us to become consciously aware of where kindness and openness are lacking and encourages us to release what no longer serves us.
This journey doesn’t lead to a grand moment of enlightenment but rather to a quieter, more grounded presence in our day-to-day lives. By cultivating this intimacy with our experiences, we slow down, become more present, and awaken to the inherent beauty of life. In this state of grace, tenderness, and equanimity, we discover a deeper connection to both ourselves and the world around us.
However, softening, though it may sound easy, can be a struggle. Most of us are conditioned to carry a kind of hardness through life, imagining it necessary for both psychological and physical survival. It is this hardness that must be released and dissolved for the intimacy of softness to shine forth.
In my experience, softening is an often overlooked but powerful force in spiritual growth. Consider this.
Words are powerful Extraordinary ways Of communicating But silence carries The secrets of the universe. ---------------------- Live a divine life Not by doing anything different Or changing your beliefs But by realizing that union Is all there is And living that truth. ---------------------- Love's water will start to flow Through the smallest of cracks. --------------------- Let the light shine through your wounds Deny your tender heart no more Stop trying to fix what is not broken But just hurts so much That tenderness may not go away But the more you embrace it The more it becomes your friend Not your enemy. ------------------------ Love breaks through the cracks in us But its release hurts For we feel the dam that may break And release all that has been held onto So we try and push it back But love is unstoppable And will find its way. ------------------------ Let your awakening Include all you feel Turn nothing away But open so wide You and the whole world Fall in to that unconditionality. ----------------------- You already are Everything you seek And everything you long for It’s all there within you Latent and covered over Don’t look for something you don’t have Resolve only to remove the veils That cover what is already there. ----------------------- Stand alone Do your own thing Shine your own light Even when it seems To never reach anyone Do it for yourself and God That’s all that really matters. ---------------------- I fell into such a deep love And profound gratitude That I forgot the world And all my troubles And for one exquisite moment Dissolved into an ecstatic union. ----------------------- Pull back the veil of your heart And let your ragged beauty shine Life is short and slips away so fast Your light is a precious jewel Worthy of revelation.
A recent video: The Longing to Live From The Heart: The Power of Releasing Hidden Emotions.
Thanks! Kavi
A welcoming walk!
Thanks Kavi, a good reminder, relax and soften within the structure/form (tai chi) - 'Soong' in Chinese. Without this it is impossible to make a connection with your opponent/partner and the chi can only flow with it.