Simply put, see what stands in the way of what is already here. In many ways, this is the fast track to peace. Assume that peace and presence are already present, and rather than activating the self to seek it, attend only to what seems to be in the way.
It may be a fixed belief, a sense that certain emotions are ‘stuck’ somewhere, or perhaps fear, anger, or a deep mistrust in life or yourself.
Whatever it is, don’t view it as a problem. Instead, see it as an invitation to become more intimate with it. No fixing, no mending, no trying, no method—just an intimacy with what appears to block presence. That’s true inquiry.
We often think inquiry is a mental activity, but on the spiritual path, it goes deeper. It’s not linear, pragmatic, or logical. It involves heart and soul. Drop the expectation of finding an answer—there is no answer in intimacy, and none in presence. Presence and intimacy ARE the answer. They are the living truth, not a mental one.
This means becoming an observer in your own life—not a detached, cold observer, but a warm, attentive witness to what stands in the way of what is already here. Then, be intimate and present with that. Over time, something dissolves. It takes patience, resilience, and a determination to stop seeing what is inside as a problem that needs to be solved or fixed.
Yet, the ongoing softening that emerges is beautiful.
Thanks for reading.
Learn to walk lightly There is nothing heavy about you Except you are weighed down By the burdens of emotion And an expectation It should be different Than the way it is. -------------------------- We are starved Of living in the soul’s beauty So we seek it in the superficial But it’s not to be found there And only by diving into the deep Will we know it. ----------------------- There is nothing As beautiful as openness It is like watching the rain arrive And soak the parched and arid land Surely this is love's finest display The divine exalts in millions of ways But to see the hardness of the human Soften into tenderness and surrender Is grace. ------------------------ Sometimes you have to fall into the swamp Get down in the darkness Dive into the soup That’s the grit The base metal Go into that denseness with awareness Know it, feel it, touch it It may hurt, there may be suffering Old wounds re-emerge Old sorrows, memories, struggles Still just stay present in that dark place And maybe, just maybe You catch a glimpse of the light Shining through those shadows And if not, don’t worry You are being held by a love Greater than you And to become whole again The darkness and the light Must become one. No mud, no lotus. --------------------------- Why not let go and see your life as a glorious masterpiece of darkness and light, of joy and sorrow, a dance of form in emptiness. this is freedom. ------------------------- When you fall into yourself And drop all resistance To how you feel When you clear up the body temple And end beating yourself or the world With the stick of the past The healing you generate Will bring you to vibrational authenticity And your intuition will come back on line. ------------------------ Enter your darkness And become the light It's not what you discover But the very act of willingness That transforms you. ------------------------ After all else has been tried On the spiritual path Surrender of the self Is discovered To be the final door. ----------------------- The tenderness to hold life gently The kindness to allow things to be The grace to see I and life are one And the wisdom to know There is a secret intelligence To which we all bow down.
From our East Coast Retreat earlier this year. A little early evening entertainment and joy, with Bert (a fabulous musician)
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I love your writing so much Kavi. So much is arising & I’m cradling it within my arms & it is softening very much. I adore your work. My deep unforgiveness towards a past soul is rising & requires my love. This passage you have written is speaking to me presently. Thank you so very much. It’s so deep. I’m at peace when releasing. Much love 🤗